Being Honest

This is a guest blog from Tim my beloved life partner and an essential part of Secret Garden both in the background between groups and supporting me and co-facilitating during them.Tim wanted to contribute on this subject that, as you will see, is close to his heart. Read more about Tim at Being Tim Your
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Gratitude

We all have many things it is so easy to be grateful for - food on the table, shelter, a society more safe and stable than many. A beautiful practice is to recall on waking each morning some of the thing you are already grateful for. This will make real shifts in your vibration very
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Unbounded Aliveness

'You' are unbounded aliveness, 'you' are utter stillness, 'you' are everything, 'you' are No-thing, 'you' are all that is, 'you' are the essence, the source of all. Secret Garden has nothing to offer the personality. There are no ‘solutions’ to the whirligig of pleasure & pain & perceived problems of relationship, work, health, money, except
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Ineffable Love

Realisation of the unconditional love of Being is not a new age 'love and light' fluffiness and denial of 'reality'. Wholeness is unconditional love because it allows the play of everything. This makes it possible to embrace pain and all the shadows of shame, fear, guilt and rage fully. This is how healing and awakening
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Polarity is inevitable – yet a rose doesn’t argue with the wind

World and nature Polarity and dualism are what the world and mind- as opposed to the natural reality of being - comprises. World is created by and mirrors mind (as opposed to nature). Polarity is endlessly expressing in this unfolding dream which is real and unreal. Full embrace of this polarity (which is always impossible
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Felix talks about Circles

This is a short, beautiful video of a man voicing how very touched he is by the circle and structures. Notice how you feel as you listen to him talk about how much love he experienced. Circles are always unique and are highly experiential - they are about YOU, your freedom to live the fullness of being, ecologically
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The body – love, joy, respect

Lomi Lomi brings a respectful, and joyful relationship with your body, similar to that you might have with a beloved animal or child. Lomi lomi heals and prevents stress. A large amount of the 'dis-ease' humans experience comes from 'stress'. I see this word 'stress' as cultural shorthand for 'dishonouring the body and nature'. Lomi Lomi
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Light and emptiness

I have been prompted to write this because of recent events in the Secret Garden community. I have so much respect for those who value their awakening 'process', commit to resolving 'stickiness' in their interactions, and take the openings they experience as a guide in future choices, behaviours and actions. And yet, life is wholly
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Boundaries – made up, yet vital for a happy ‘story’ Part 2

How do you refine your capacity to clarify and communicate your boundaries? Without healthy and clearly expressed boundaries that we know we will maintain, life can be an overwhelm of resentment, unexpressed rage that is toxic to the body and those close to us. The natural, instinctive, healthy response to an invasion of a boundary is
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A Glimpse into a Circle

This is a touching video of two women voicing the life that moved for them in a short Joyful Loving structure. Circles are always unique and are highly experiential-they are about YOU, your freedom to live the fullness of being, ecologically and sustainably, in your chosen life. Women and men flourish and blossom when they
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